Monday, August 20, 2007

he'll knw who he is...


perhaps it's best that he dun apppear at all EVER in my life again~ As time passed by, I thot it'll eventually heal my wounds, but with him, I juz realised I really just hate him more... for being irresponsible, for being selfish... for hurting me in that worst possible way~

I know it's a little tad bit extreme, but I juz had to do the childish thing of deleting his everything from my life... his number, his email, his address, his pictures, his friendster, his testimonials for me, throwing away everything tat have even the slightest link or memory of him...

me and him - no longer lovers, not frens, not even acquaintance... To me, it's just a period of wasted time, terrible mistake and a hell lot of grief!

those whom take me as a fren, pls dun even mention his name to me. It'll only create this gloom ard me that I'll take forever to shake off... If I have to hate him to feel better, I will juz have to hate him...

SO go away and STAY AWAY... thank you...

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

hey...sometimes u juz haf to learn to let go...it's hard...but once u let it go...u'll realised there's so much more around u...n den u'll find ur happiness...hope u'r alright...haf a good day ahead...

Anonymous said...

hi, at last some updates uh? u been tru such phase b4 so i m sure time will help to heal u.:)

Anonymous said...

Hi there! This may seems weird but you might wanna try to forgive him? That might make you feel better than hating him. Try fogiving him of all the hurts that he has caused you, all the tears that he has made you cried.

There's a reason why he has appear in your life. Life's a journey, people come and go in our lives. Things happens. Whether good or bad, it's part of the journey. But it's what we've learned from the bad experiences and the decision made that determines whether it's a fruitful journey or a painful one.

Try letting of the hatred, the burden, the weight.. Learn to soar like the eagles in the skies again..

Cheers =)

Anonymous said...

Be the Master of your own Emo. Don give in to your Hate.

There is nothing to forgive actually. (No offense to Snoopy) Such MOFOs are the source of our strength which in turn makes us stronger.

Love yurself, not hate.

:)

Anonymous said...

Haha... If you hate him, that means u haven got over him...

simple as that

Faith Chen Fengyi

Anonymous said...

just remember the happy times you had together.

forget all the rest.

Anonymous said...

Haha .. no point talking or advising you to forgive or blar blar blar abt him right .. cause you will just wanna do it your way !! hey first time i post a comment ... you feel honour .. buy me drinks .. hahaha

Anonymous said...

what i learnt from my past relationship is that, at first you felt lost for losing him, then after you lost him you will hate him.. after when you hate him and don't really bother him, you are starting to get over it. and when you are like me now, happily having a single life and do whatever you want, and even wishing him all the best, you are completely out of it. We only live once and a life span of not more than a hundred yrs or a bit more, so why make yourself stressful and troubled with matters of heart. engaged in other activities, like CARS! HAHAHA

Anonymous said...

life is too short to waste your time on hating others. haven't you hurt others before too? if a pair of lovers are destined to be with each other then nothing can keep them apart. they will still come back together after separating. so why force? it's better knowing now that both of u are not suited than to find out later when u both are already married. live life with an open mind and heart and u will feel much lighter. learn to let go as how u had learnt to take up. nobody is indispensable and everyone dies alone. just my two cents worth. cheers.

Anonymous said...

hi. nobody will noe exactly how u feel y cos we aint in your shoes. pls do wat u think that will make u feel better. let it go. take care.

Anonymous said...

Hi, will like to share my experience with u.To solve a bad relationship is
not to patch it back but accepted the fact and challenge yourself by facing a new start. Be brave to accepted the relationship is gone! Sooner or later, you will be enjoying
a happy life.

From:bookworms

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

Time is a companion that goes with us on a journey. It reminds us to cherish each moment, because it will never come again. What we leave behind is not as important as how we have lived.Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking.

Aaron ghs

Anonymous said...

you are full of nonsense.
Reason: Is your conscience not guilty of hurting another guy before like how you got hurt by this guy? Since you've hurt another person real badly before, you are equally as bad. Heard of karma? this is your karma then.

You are already 25. grow up and stop blaming other people for past happenings.