Sunday, May 15, 2005

Missing someone...

I got this from a friendster bulletin posted by a fren. it juz gets to me and touch me deeply. Maybe becoz i've been having this feeling recently.
read on...


Missing someone is a terrible but at the same time, sweet feeling.
You will be sitting around wondering if you meant anything to him/her.
Thinking if he/she ever cares about you.
Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's him/her.

Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will surprise you by appearing downstairs.
Sitting in front of the television but thinking of him/her,
missing the final episode of your favourite show.
Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time you were out together.
Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again,
talking about everything, your dreams, plans, future.
Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online.
When you realise that he/she isn't online and did not return your call,
you will start worrying if he/she is okay.

Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess.
It exposes you to loneliness.
It teaches you how to cope with being lonely and let you know that there is actually a feeling known as emptiness.

Sometimes it feels good to miss someone.
You know that you really care and you indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her.

But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible.
You feel as if you are being left alone.
So if you miss someone, tell him/her and let them know.
At the same time, ask if they miss you.
Don't let the feeling of missing someone become jealousy or paranoia.
If you are the one being missed and you know it, let the other party know.
If you miss him/her too, tell them.
Don't let them wait.

it really felt terrible especially missing someone tat is so dear and close to you. How i wish to tell him, "You always on my mind, each time i wake up till i close my eyes.." i wonder, is he missing me too?

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi,
Happen to come across your blog when I saw this paragraph...

Really get into my heart when I read it..cos it relates my feelings to her :(

Anonymous said...

Hi,

Missing someone ...... that feeling is rather hard to express juz in one word!