Friday, November 12, 2004

Mind Games Woman Play!


I leeched this from Weng Kin's website! Like it so much~ hahaha.... is this how all females think?

10. The Waiting Game. You called her and, although you usually don't do this (or at least you shouldn't), you left a message for her to call you back. Hours or even days may pass before she returns your call.

9. The Bait Game. The "I think I look fat in these pants... do you?" scenario is a tricky situation. Asking for your opinion is important to her; she wants to make sure that you find her desirable. But by framing the question as an effort to validate her own opinion, she's baiting you into jamming your foot into your mouth.

8. The Playing Dumb Game. This happens when she doesn't want to do something. To get you to take care of it, she'll play the "I don't know how to do that" angle. The task might be programming the TiVo or installing some software. More than likely she knows how to do it, but just doesn't want to.

7. The Hard to Get Game. This isn't always just a matter of her trying to present herself as a challenge. Some women will hold back feelings if there is an emotional risk involved. She could be testing the water before she dives in, as she needs to make sure that you're worth the risk.

6. The "We Need To Talk" Game. This game usually begins when you're watching some major sporting event, like the Super Bowl. Once again, she's testing you and trying to see where your priorities are. She needs your attention and she wants it now.

5. The Trading Goods for Services Game. She'll often take advantage of this game when sex is on the line. She implicitly offers to give you sex in exchange for something she wants you to do. There aren't many women out there who can resist a man who helps around the house, shops for shoes with them or agrees to treat his mother-in-law to dinner.

4. The Reverse Psychology Game. This usually occurs when she says the opposite of what she really wants, hoping you will do exactly what she wants you to do. For example, she wants you to do the dishes, but she doesn't come right out and say it. Instead, she says she'll do the dishes, only you later discover that she's mad at you because you didn't help. Confusing, I know.

3. The Mind Reading Game. This is usually played alongside the reverse psychology game. Fellas, she wants you to read her mind because she thinks that if you really cared, you would know exactly what she wants. Although this is not a logical game, far from it, women still expect you to get them.

2. The Silent Treatment Game. You know you've done something wrong when she doesn't speak to you and gives you the cold shoulder. The thing is you have no clue why she's so ticked.

1. The Ultimatum Game. This is the big kahuna of all games. It happens when the relationship is on the line. She expects something big. Possibly marriage, moving in together or a ring -- and if you aren't ready to take the step with her, she's willing to move on. This may be a bluff or it may not.

although it's subjective whether all women think this way, but I'm SO glad i'm a woman!! muahaha!!!

1 comment:

rebar15 said...

It's more of a question, I went out on a date with this girl and we had alot in comman and i mean everything we talked about she told me to call her the next day, when i did she did'nt return my call, so i called again the next day, i left a message with each call, and the date went great, she gave me 3 hug's, with her approach, she said she wanted to go out again, and was very enthuisiastic about me calling her, so what's the deal?